My Come Back - Proper Etiquette

I have finally broken up with my bf of too many years, but by doing so, I have lost the one person I can openly rant, laugh, cry and most of all complain to about my work. So, here I am, about to reveal some truths probably better left unsaid in the mysterious world of whoring... What I find odd about the world of sex, from pornstars, hookers, strippers and even the harem, people believe that we who are in it, are there only to please you; to give your every whim without thought. How wrong people are when it comes to this, for example: a client (a most annoying one) said to me in session, I'll make you a pro at blowjobs by the end of our time together. The only thing I could think of was, why on earth should I care about pleasing you? I am there to be a vessel to help you orgasm, but since you are a stranger why would I spend the time to give you exactly what you desire? The emotional toll of such an act is much higher than most realize. The reason why services are mechanical is because of the emotional toll on the provider is not worth the small fee you are providing. The secret to getting what you want, is quite simple: Kindness. It doesnt matter if you're not wealthy, there are many ways to be kind. Conversation is huge. Making a connection, finding coomon threads in each others life. Or give her a long deep massage or lightly tickle her. Remember, you choose her, she doesn't choose you. The onus is up to you now to Help break the ice. Help do that and you've already won half the battle. That being said, everyone loves being tipped for exceptional service. You Tip waitresses and delivery boys, why not the person who helps you to escape the world and relax. Flowers, jewels, cash, chocolates etc. all is appreciated more than you know. In our world, the world hateswhores because we are wrong, or immoral, yet we are the oldest profession for a reaso